Dreams & Plans

Iโ€™ve been thinking a lot lately about dreams and how silly dreams can be. Dreams in general are helpful in achieving things and for me, it gives me something to work toward. I work best when I have a list or dates to check off or get to.

Dreams are only silly because these dreams we have for ourselves or the life we want arenโ€™t always, and frequently not, what God has in store for us.

Is this intentional?

God has a plan for our lives. Weโ€™re the ones that donโ€™t adhere to His plans and we make selfish choices. His plan is still good and He restores all things the way He sees fit, in His timing and He brings His plan to fruition – regardless of how sinful we are.

When weโ€™re close to God and allow the Holy Spirit to guide us, our dreams can come closer to what God has for us in the first place.

Imagine having dreams that arenโ€™t so self-centered and bring glory to God!

Not all dreams are self-centered and we can have dreams that give glory to God, but I think the intention of dreams – at least for me in my life – has been self-centered and what I want – not really what God has for His children.

I dream a lot in recent years of having my own home. Iโ€™ve actually dreamed of designing my own home since kindergarten, but now Iโ€™m an adult and I still donโ€™t have my own place. How disappointed do you think I am? It hasnโ€™t been in Godโ€™s timing and Iโ€™m chugging along toward this dream that sometimes seems so far away.

Thatโ€™s just one example.

Iโ€™ve been thinking about dreams and how, even though they havenโ€™t been fulfilled (yet), I can and should still have joy because of my walk with God.

Isnโ€™t He sufficient?


In BSF this semester, we are taking a journey through the book of Matthew. Our title for the series is โ€œThe Unexpected King.โ€

Our first week we were in chapter 1 where Mary and Joseph have been told Mary is pregnant with a baby boy who theyโ€™ll name Jesus.

Mary was only a teenager, maybe 12-13?? She was engaged to be married and I learned that at that time, an engagement was a time before they were living together but to โ€œbreak-upโ€ an engagement would need a divorce! Very different from the โ€œnormโ€ of this age, or at least our Western culture.

At her age, she surely had some idea of what her life would be like with Joseph. Iโ€™m sure she had dreams. Being pregnant before marriage was not part of her plans, yet her obedience to say โ€œOkayโ€ and just do as the Lord asked is admirable.

  1. When does a teen obey so easily??
  2. Why do adults have a hard time with this kind of obedience to this day??

I feel like even in a story Iโ€™ve heard and read so many times, Iโ€™m finding application to myself in it still. I see, not Maryโ€™s exact circumstances, but her opportunity for obedience and selflessness that she claimed. I have that right now, too.

What I can take away from Mary in this passage that we know, is that Godโ€™s plan comes before and prevails over ours. He provides opportunities along our journey to just obey and so many times we miss the mark because weโ€™re not paying attention or weโ€™re so caught up in our own things.

How are you obeying God this week in the opportunities Heโ€™s laid before you? Will you join me in practicing putting aside selfish ambitions and living for Him?


Thanks for reading.โค๏ธ

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